Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Theo's Holiday

So I was flipping channels tonight and came across one of THE BEST Cosby episodes of ALL TIME... Theo's Holiday. Remember the one where Theo decides he's ready for the "real world"? I found the whole thing on YouTube, but it's in short segments... Enjoy (you have to get past the first 8-10 seconds of each one, then the show starts).

Gotta love Cockroach. He's a little Urkel-esque in the Part Four clip, no?

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Giveaway update

Here's an update on a previous post... I won a prize in the April Showers 100th Post Giveaway! I got lucky and won 50% off any service she offers... So I'm going to indulge myself and have her design a fancy-schmancy header for my blog. Stay tuned!

Happy Valentine's Day to you!

Mike and I celebrated our Valentine's Day last night. A few weeks ago, I lucked out and won a $150 gift card to PF Chang's through my job. On top of that, a co-worker (I like to call her the Toddler Whisperer because she is SO AMAZING with the little people) offered to watch W for us so that we could go out and enjoy a nice dinner. So yesterday afternoon, we dropped W off at the Toddler Whisperer's house. He was in Seventh Heaven--he adores her. We had a delicious dinner--it was a good thing we made reservations, as the place was packed! Mike got duck, his fave, and I got a yummy, spicy chicken dish. We have about half our balance left on the gift card, so we're excited about being able to go back for another "Free" meal soon!
We exchanged our Valentines last night. I got Mike some fancy tea that he really likes--Zhena's Gypsy Tea. I got him three different varieties--Coconut Chai, Passionate Peach, and Egyptian Green Mint. Yum. For me, Mike got several lavender-scented items from Etsy. If you've never shopped on Etsy, you're missing out on a real treat. Speaking of treats, the big surprise for me was walking up to the house last night after dinner and discovering a big box from Mike had ordered two dozen roses for me.... They smell divine, and are absolutely beautiful. What can I say? My husband is a smart man.
W is obsessed with his training potty. He doesn't quite have his timing down yet; he asks to use it AFTER he's gone in his diaper... But at least he's making the connection, right??

Wednesday, February 4, 2009


Here's the video promo for the Summer program at W's school... He makes a cameo appearance in the "Consistency" frame (1:25 or so).

As long as I continue to work over the summer, he will have his consistency, as he'll continue his regular school schedule.

Monday, February 2, 2009

Good golly...

...Miss Molly! Leave it to a Smithie to be remembered as a hell-raiser, right? Saturday was the 2-year anniversary of Molly Ivins' death, and this piece, written by her former assistant, is a beautiful tribute to a beautiful woman.
[Molly (Smith '66) received the Smith Medal and was the keynote speaker at Rally Day for my junior year (2001). At that point, her breast cancer was in remission, only to reappear a couple of years later.]

Studying Mississippi

I ran across an interesting report today. The non-profit, non-partisan American Human Development Project conducted a study the state of Mississippi. Their findings probably aren't "breaking news" to anyone, but it is interesting to see it all broken down by race, geography, etc.

Here are the basic findings, courtesy of the American Human Development Project's study:


The top three county groups in the state, Rankin, Madison-Hinds, and DeSoto, are well ahead of the rest of the state in well-being with a human develop­ment level around the U.S. average.

A resident of top-ranked Rankin County lives, on average, 6 years longer than a resident of the bottom-ranked Panola-Coahoma area, is 3 times more likely to complete college, and earns over $12,000 more. Mississippians living in Panola-Coahoma have a human development level similar to that of the average American in 1975, more than thirty years ago.


Whites who are worst off in the entire state in terms of income are still better off than the vast majority of African Americans. Earnings for white Mississippians in all county groups spans from $22,000 to $38,000. For African Americans, the range is $13,000 to $25,000.

An African American baby boy born today in Mississippi can expect a shorter lifespan than the average American in 1960.


Mississippi’s females have a higher Human Development Index than do males, despite the fact that they earn 33 percent less, because females live over 5 years longer and have far higher rates of school enrollment.

White men in Mississippi earn an average of $5,000 more per year than the typical American worker today, at $33,390. But white women have median personal earnings about equal to what typical Americans earned in 1980, $21,453.

And here are the basic recommendations from the group (again, not rocket science, but important, nonetheless):

Reduce infant mortality by improving health care for African American girls and women. African American babies die in Mississippi at more than twice the rate of white babies. The death of a child is a loss like no other, and the burden of grief borne by the African American community is heavy. The solution lies in ensuring that women have access to quality medical care and that girls grow to adulthood in an environment that supports them to eat a nutritious diet, get adequate exercise, manage chronic conditions like diabetes and HIV, cope with stress, and enjoy overall mental health.

Improve the health of African American men. An African American baby boy born today in Mississippi can expect to live 68.2 years. This is a lifespan shorter than that of the average American in 1960. African American men in Mississippi die at higher rates than white men from the leading causes of death—heart disease, cancer, and stroke—as well as from other causes like homicide, accidents, diabe­tes, and HIV/AIDS. The premature loss of African American men is a source of both economic and emotional distress in African American communities.

Improve the quality of public education in Mississippi. Mississippi has some of the worst scores in the nation on most measures of K–12 educational quality. It is difficult to imagine how the state can make economic progress when the future workforce is deprived of the opportunity to develop even basic skills, much less the higher-order skills needed to obtain better-paying jobs, such as independence of thought, communications skills, interpersonal skills, and technology literacy.

Connect at-risk boys to school. About a third of Mississippi’s African American men over 25 do not have a high school diploma. And today, still greater numbers of African American boys are leaving high school without graduating. Without a high school diploma, prison becomes a far likelier destination than college. The high rate of juvenile detention in Mississippi, especially for nonviolent offenses, is a worri­some impediment to long-term ability of African American boys to become produc­tive members of society and to lead fulfilling lives of choice, freedom, and dignity.

Ensure that working families can make ends meet. White men in Mississippi are, on average, earning about $5,000 more per year than the typical American worker today. But African American women today earn less than the typical American in 1960; African American men earn what typical Americans earned in 1970; and white women what typical Americans earned in 1980. More than one in five Mississippians lives below the poverty line; nearly seven in ten public school stu­dents qualifies for a subsidized lunch. Other states help working families meet a basic monthly budget with a state earned income tax credit, state minimum wages, affordable housing, affordable health care options, and subsidized childcare. Such policies help to create an infrastructure of opportunity for all.

You can go to this website for the complete study. For extra commentary, check out this piece from Institute for Southern Studies.

I found this especially interesting-- and telling-- The average cost per year of keeping an inmate in prison in Mississippi in 2006 was $15,000; the average expenditure per pupil for elementary and junior high school in the state that same year was just over $7,000. Thus the state is spending twice as much per prisoner as it is on education per schoolchild.